From Doug's Message on Discouragement

I find myself most discouraged when i let someone down. It usually follows a pattern of unhealthy motivations, unrealistic expectations & self defeating behavior. THE FEAR OF FAILURE LEADS TO FAILURE.

Here is a little piece on the bleakness of discouragement:

Discouragement

The cold hope of doubt haunts me
Failure knows my name
As I set myself up again
To fuel the passive flame

I rise with good intent
My yes is so sincere
But with commitment thin
Before I start, I’m done in fear

Disillusionment is my legacy
To those in me invested.
Dissatisfaction & regret,
To those I love, bequested

Their disappointment justly earned
Their faith eternally dispelled
Discouragement takes up its readied place
Where courage never dwelled.